Travis / Robin Stewart
I have just read the story of Travis and I can feel the love and the pain.  My son Jason Snyder was also in a car accident and had head trauma.  He didn't live long only 38 minutes after the accident not enough time for me to be notified.  It is so hard to understand why these things happen and I don't know how we actually survive the loss of a child.  Travis seemed like such an all american boy, how very sad we all had to loose another child.  You are all in my thoughts. Close

Relate to your pain.  / Pamela Hopey
I am so sorry for you great loss.  Travis was a well loved young man as was my Son Jamie.  As I read his story of his accident, it is very heart wrenching. I asked God to just grant us a little time to say good bye, to Jamie, but he was Gone on Impact.  I always said I guess it wasn't meant for me to say goodbye b/c I couldn't never let him go, he was just too precious to us.  So Sorry we have to endure the pain of losing our sons.  Things will never be the same again.  I  pray and can't wait till the day we can meet again.  It's been 2 months now since Jamie's accident and I miss him more and more each day and everyday.   I know I have to carry on, for my youngest son who is 13.  He is the only thing to keep me going. 
God bless you and your family and if you like to keep in touch, I included my email address.
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HE'S MY SON ( SONG BY MARK SCHULTZ)  / LISA (MOM)

1.  ^{_{I'm down on my knees again tonight I'm hoping this prayer will turn out right. See there is a boy that needs Your help I've done all that I can do myself.  His mother is tired I'm sure You can understand.    Each night as he sleeps she goes in to hold his hand.   And she tries not to cry as the tears fill her eyes             Chorus:}}
2.  ^{_{Can You hear me? Am I getting through tonight? Can You see him? Can You make him feel all right? If You can hear me Let me take his place somehow.   See, he's not just anyone He's my son.}} 
4. ^{_{Sometimes late at night I watch him sleep. I dream of the boy he'd like to be. I try to be strong and see him through,  But God who he needs right now is You.  Let him grow old live life without this fear.  What would I be Living without him here. He's so tired and he's scared.  Let him know that You're there     Chorus:}}

 ^{_{Can You hear me? Can You see him? Please don't leave him He's my son}} ( Back to H

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never had the chance to meet you  / Bettina Braun (friend of Mom & Dad )
Travis, when I was 16 years old I met your parents as an exchange student. Your Mom and I managed to stay in contact for all those years. And even though I have never met you or your brother and sister I feel close to your family. I was shocked to hear that you died. You made me think of the importance to really live and enjoy every single moment we have on earth. Thank you for understanding.  I know your Grandmom, I called her Mom and loved her deaply. I know that she will take care of you. I wish you a happy birthday in heaven. However you celebrate in heaven - enjoy it! Bettina Close

GRADUATION 6-6-06  / LISA WOERNER (MOM)

IT BREAKS OUR HEARTS THAT TRAVIS WON'T BE GRADUATING WITH HIS CLASS.   WE LOOKED FORWARD FOR THIS MOMENT FOR A LONG TIME.  A NEW BEGINING AND A NEW LIFE.  THE GRADUATION OF THE CLASS OF O6 IS  BITTER SWEET.   WE KNOW THAT TRAVIS IS IN HEAVEN WAITING FOR HIS FAMILY TO SEE HIM ONCE AGAIN.  WE WILL TELL HIM HOW PROUD WE ARE OF HIM. THE CLASS OF 06 CHOSE PINK AND BLUE AS THEIR COLORS IN MEMORY OF TRAVIS AND KRISTIN.  THIS IS VERY SPECIAL TO US.  WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU TRAVIS.  OUR HEARTS CRY OUT TO YOU.
WE ARE PROUD OF TOM MIX AND DANNY HINDMEND  FOR THE HONOR OF RECEIVING "THE TRAVIS WOERNER MEMORIAL SCHOLARSHIP"  THIS YEAR.
THE MOON WAS SHINING BRIGHT EVEN BEFORE THE SUN WENT DOWN AND I KNEW TRAVIS WAS LOOKING DOWN FROM HEAVEN.

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The Candle of Hope  / Melissa Smith
Four candles slowly burned 
The ambience was so soft one could almost hear them talking 
The first candle said "I am Peace" 
"The world is so full of anger and fighting that nobody can keep me alight" 
Then the candle of peace went out completely. 
The the second candle said 
"I am Faith" 
"I am no longer indispensable 
It does not make any sense that I stay awake one moment longer." 
Then a breeze softly blew out Faith's flame. 
Sadly the third candle began to speak 
"I am Love" 
"People don't understand my importance, 
So they put me aside. 
They even forget to love nearest to them. 
I don't have the strength to stay alight" 
And waiting no longer the candle of Love went out. 
A child entered the room where the candles were 
And saw that three of the candles were unlit. 
"Why are you not burning?" said the child 
"You are supposed to stay alight until the very end" 
And the child was frightened and began to cry. 
The the fourth candle said 
"Don't be afraid. I am hope, 
And while I am burning we can light the other candles" 
With shining eyes the child took the candle of Hope 
And lit the other candles. 
 
The flame of Hope should never go out from your life, 
And with Hope each of us can have a life 
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Thnking of you  / Bobbi Erb

We have walked with your parents through the worst possible nightmare and have seen God's grace and mercy carry them through.  Because of this our faith is stronger.  Romans 8:38 and 39

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Special Kind of Love!  / Jacquese White (Hospital Room Neighbor in Gary, IN. )
Dear Travis,

I have had the misfortune of not being able to share thoughts, words, or laughter with you, but upon your transition God also made it possible for me to meet your extraordinarily loving friends and family! Travis, I was a 23yr. old at Methodist Hospital in Gary, IN. all by myself wishing and praying for a healthy recovery for my father (59yr. stroke patient who transitioned 2 days after you). For one week I slept in the waiting room at the hospital as did your mom and dad (that's when and where I became acquainted with your loving siblings and parents, Alexis, Nick, Lisa, and Fritz who have since become friends of mine.) During such a grievious time they embraced me and filled me with so much encouragement, love, and not to mention food.........Travis they kept me stuffed with food! LOL!  to help me manage my difficult time. Talk about selfishless LOVE! Nevertheless you had an outpour of love that was undeniable and indescribable from the remainder of your friends and family from Indy...and that's when I knew that you had to be a special person!

It takes special kinds of people to exude special kinds of love.
Please know that you are so very special because you received so much of that love.

Happy 18th Birthday!
Love,

Jacquese White
Gary, IN.

P.S.  My Dad's name is Jackie White if you run into him give him a huge hug and tell him it's from me and that I miss him tremendously! Close

18 YRS AGO TODAY, I GAVE BIRTH TO A BEAUTIFUL BABY BOY, TRAVIS  / LISA WOERNER (MOM)

Happy birthday  Travis,
    We love you and miss you.  It is hard to believe that you are gone from this earth, but Heaven is a better place to be.  You are at peace.   May God and Jesus comfort you on this wonderful day.  The tears will forever bridge the gap, until we meet again in Heaven.  

Love,
Mom

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happy birthday, travis  / Karen Cox (friend)
dear travis, It sure would be fun to wish you happy birthday in person. I'd like to ask you about heaven.  are you having a party?  do others bring you presents? are you having cake? Do you look older? have you gotten taller? what's it like to talk to Jesus?at such a young age you are getting to experience     things that we only dream and pray about. It was fun to talk with you. have a heavenly birthday. see you when we get there. Love your friend, karen Close

Missing You  / Christopher Plummer
Travis,  

  

Our hearts ach with a tightness and an empty hole in our chest, we try to smile and move through our life with ease and in jest.  We find ourselves struggling with all of our might, asking God to make the pain go away for just one night.  I know you are watching us with love and a smile, helping us grieve for the loss of such a wonderful child.

I know it will get easier as time moves on, but missing you is just so hard for us all. May our Lord keep you close to his chest, giving you guidance and love, knowing you are the best.  I miss you Travis.  Christopher

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You are an angel  / Mindy Ford (friend of Lisa's )

Travis, I did not have the honor of knowing you. I realize that I missed out on meeting a perfect, young man. I have two sons and a daughter. I hope my kids turn out to be as wonderful kids as you. You and your family have been an inspiration to me.  Although, we never met it seems  a day does not go by that I don't think about you or your family. Your Mom amazes me,  she, like you, is a true angel.  

May God bless each member of  your family and each one of your friends on your 18th birthday.

Mindy Reynolds Ford

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Alive in our hearts  / Sherri Forrest-Gallick (Friend)

Travis touched the lives of so many while he was on this earth and through his death, Travis brought the community together and changed lives. Travis was and still is the inspiration to many of the boys that play Westfield sports. Travis was the glue for the 05 Westfield Football Team. The boys honored Travis by making better life choices and he served as the inspiration for the season success. He brought the team together and made them a family. They respected each other, they loved each other and they grew stronger in faith. No doubt, Travis was there with the team last fall. 

  

I am also sure that Travis will be with many of the boys throughout their lives. In a time when so many teens question things, Travis has been the foundation for many. He has changed several lives for the better. My son, Ryan, still drives with a picture of Travis on his car dashboard. He will never forget. He still wears the blue band for Travis and the pink band for Kristin. 

 

I too will always remember Travis. I share the same birth date with Travis. On that date, I will always ask God to be with the Woerner family & Travis. May is also Mother’s Day and I know that Travis is enormously proud of Lisa. What the Woerner family has done with this tragedy is amazing. Lisa & Fritz have such strong faith and they have been a gift for so many families by sharing their story. 

 

Often, I end up driving on Cary Road and past the Woerner house. So many times, I make the sign of the cross and say a prayer for the family & Travis in heaven. Lisa & Fritz, while our paths do not cross as much as they did in the past, you are always in my thoughts, my prayers and in my heart. 

 

Love & Hugs, Sherri

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We miss you, we love you  / Randy Gallick (Friend)

I knew Travis because of my step-son and sports, especially football. His smile was infectious and his heart was gold. I remember Travis, Tom & Ryan going to play a round at the Golf Preserve in the Fall of 2004. At the last minute, they weren't sure that Travis could go because he didn't have clubs (Fritz plays right-handed and Travis played left-handed). I was able to loan Travis my clubs as I also am blessed to play from "the wrong side". I know that I will think of Travis when I pick up my clubs.....every time. 

Travis also shares a birth date with my wife. As special and joyous that day is, there will always be time spent in prayer for Travis also. 

We miss you, we love you - Randy

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Still teaching others...  / Dee Bloom (Lisa's ballet friend )
Dear Lisa- I have enjoyed looking at Travis' sites. He was an adorable kid and a very handsome teen. Although I never knew him, I want you to know that Travis has served as an inspiration to me to do the best job I can as a parent to help my new driver (son) know the seriousness of getting behind the wheel, or being a passenger in another person's car. We have talked about Travis and the other Hamilton County kids whose lives have ended so abruptly in traffic accidents. Travis will continue to be a teacher to scores of teens from here on. His life was not in vain. His purpose is being served. In honor of his upcoming birthday, just wanted you to know that I am thinking of you! Love, Dee Close

mr. / Herbert Hawbecker (stepgrandfather)
remember witness at church at funeral. even in death travis was a witness to others. Agnes and I loved him and wish things were but that would not have been Gods wish. Close

I Believe  / Melissa Smith

I believe God's promises are true. I believe Heaven is real.I believe God will see US through. I believe nothing can separateUs from God's love. I believe God has work for me to do. "Believing against the grain" means having a survivalist attitude. Not only can WE survive, but out of it we can create something good. We need to cry out to each other for help and cry out, "God help US believe!"

Thinking of you and thanking you for your thoughts and prayers while my hands are recovering. Melissa

http://blakemoore.memory-of.com

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loving memories of you  / Granny Habegger (Grandma)
Travis was always a very quiet loving child.  He grew to be a handsome teenager who was loved and admired greatly.  Both Papa and I loved him and feel a great loss in our lives with his untimely death.  We miss our Travis and we will hold him dear in memory until we leave this earthly life and join him in Heaven.  I love you, Travis. Close

a story of remembrance  / Papa Habegger (Grandfather)
When the two became one, the result was the creation by God of first child, Travis.  He was a beautiful healthy son who grew into a handsome loving young man.  Travis loved life and was dearly loved and admired by others, including the family and many friends.  He learned to ski in the mountains of Utah with Uncle Steve and Aunt Merribeth.  Trav was just an excellent athlete in all his chosen sports and this spilled over into his scholastic efforts also.  I really miss my grandson, Travis, who is now with his heavenly Father. He was a real joy in my life and in  the lives of all his family.  I will never forget you, my boy.  I have been blessed to have you as my grandson.  I love you,  Papa                                             Dictated by Papa Habegger Close

Thinking of you  / Melissa Smith

Here on earth we are put together in families. Our loved ones become inexpressibly precious to us. We live in intimate associations. One gets so close to mother and father, wife or husband, sons and daughters, that they literally become a part of one's very life. Then comes a day when a strange change comes over one that we love. He is transformed before our very eyes. The light of life goes out for him. He cannot speak to us nor we to him. He is gone and we are left stunned and heartbroken. An emptiness and loneliness comes into our hearts. We brokenheartedly say "That the one whom I loved is dead." It is such a cold, hopeless thing to realize. Then, out of the very depths of our despair, comes that marvelous declaration of our Lord: I am the resurrection, and the life: he that believeth in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live: and whosoever liveth and believeth in me shall never die. John 11: 25,26

Then we know! We know we have not lost our loved ones who have died. We have just been separated, and as long as we live there will be an empty place left in our hearts. To some extent, the loneliness will always be there. But when we really know that one is not forever lost, it does seem to take away, a little bit, of the sorrow. There is a vast difference between precious memories, loneliness, the pain of separation, on the one hand, and a sorrow that ruins and blights our lives, on the other hand.

Hope these words are of comfort to you my friends. Please, please know that you are always on my mind and in my heart and prayers. My hands are not better yet, in fact the left one is very numb right now, so it is hard to type. But even though I can't write every day as I did before, I think of you every day. In Christian Love, Melissa

Not now, but in the coming years, it may be in the better land: we'll read the meaning of our tears, and there, some time, we'll understand.

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